Kerry & Jeff, though of course i have not met Barry, when i see his photo, I feel i could. But my sympathies are for you kerry and Jeff, and all family and friends who knew him...........a huge loss for sure........noone can easily accept loss and grief. I have not lost a brother, but each type of grief brings us u expected, deep rooted emotions. I am so sorry for your loss and I will think of you as you go through this difficult period. Love Helen Gedraitis